01 / Anxiety and panicPanic Disorder Therapy in Iowa City
A panic attack feels like ten minutes of hell before it starts to let go of your nervous system. Nobody warns you about what emotional damage it might leave behind. You startle so much worse than before, and you now pick where to sit by how fast you could get out. The panic was the flash of lightning in the sky, and the scattered, anxious rearranging for your safety is the thunderous aftereffect on your life.
02 / what it can feel likeThe Toll Panic Can Take
So many of the clients that have reached out to me for help with their panic have chosen to actively avoid something in their life. This could be something as everyday as going to the grocery store, driving on the interstate, or a call with their manager because they fear rejection or too many questions. To the anxious mind, these avoidances can appear logical, but they aren’t. They are taking your wonderful ability to think, and twisting it every so slightly into one negative rabbit hole after another. After enough of that negativity, one day you find yourself waking up into a reality in which you don’t want to go anywhere, and that it would be far safer to stay safely at home. The problem is, you cannot remember asking for any of this. There was no agreed upon contract. There was only a slow march towards making the world around you as small as possible, so that at least you can feel like you have control over that.
When a panic attack hits, your nervous system usually is experiencing fight or flight. It feels like there is either danger imminent, or, the danger has already arrived and you need to get the hell out of whatever situation is causing that dangerous feeling. Your heart rate spikes, your breathing rapidly increases, and you begin to feel like the room around you is closing in. All of this can be incredibly scary, but the good news is that it is all treatable. All of what I have described can change, and change for the better. Our goal is to return you to a state in which you can live freely again, unburdened by the constant drain panic induces.
To recognize ourselves in a struggling state is acceptance that its real, and also, that it can change...03 / How i work with itFour main approaches
I use EMDR, NARM, DBT, and Ego-State Therapy to help you through the emotional difficulties you are experiencing. EMDR has a place when something specific sits underneath the panic, pushing up on it, cause an intense amount of emotional pressure. A loss, a betrayal, or a stretch of years you have never healed properly from. It can be used when a memory still carries a shameful, negative, or anxious charge. Processing it can lift the weight off and provide stability. NARM works on the patterns underneath the symptoms, the long standing habits and survival strategies you built early in life to stay connected to your caregivers. Ego-State Therapy is for dissociation, and DBT gives you something to skillfully do on the hard days while the deeper work goes on. Skills for enduring an evening you cannot think your way through, and for catching the negative internal voice as just a voice that lies, rather than taking it as a fact.
04 / The logisticsWhat it costs and how long it takes
No insurance billing, which means no diagnosis is required on a claim form to get help, and no third party gets to decide how many sessions you deserve. A Good Faith Estimate can be provided under the No Surprises Act before we begin any clinical work, so always feel welcome to ask.
FreeFree Consultation
A relaxed, 15-minute conversation about what you are looking for and whether or not we are a good fit. Online or in person.
$185Therapy Sessions
Personalized, 53-minute sessions shaped around your specific needs, in Iowa City or via telehealth statewide.
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